High-impact, focused therapy that breaks lifelong patterns and builds lasting emotional change

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You might find yourself struggling in relationships in ways you can’t always explain

— feeling overwhelmed by emotions you can’t easily regulate or retreating when things feel too much.

Despite insight or previous therapy, the same patterns still take hold. What you want is not just understanding but a real shift in how you relate, feel and connect. These difficulties aren’t character flaws — they’re longstanding emotional patterns that can be worked through.

Lasting change begins when you address the deeper forces shaping your reactions, so you can experience relationships with more clarity, confidence and ease.

My Approach

My work is grounded in psychodynamic principles — an approach that explores how unconscious patterns and early relationships shape how you feel, behave and connect today. I place strong emphasis on experiential emotional work, helping you engage with your inner experience in a way that makes genuine change possible. I also recognise the deeper, spiritual dimension of human life — the part of you that longs to grow, integrate and live more fully as yourself.

We all develop protective strategies to avoid emotional pain. These patterns may once have helped you feel accepted, cope or survive but later in life they can become limiting — withdrawing, self-blame, over-adapting in relationships or disconnecting from your own needs and feelings. Even with insight or previous therapy, shifting these patterns can feel out of reach because they operate automatically and outside awareness.

I help you to see these dynamics clearly — and how they interfere with the life and relationships you want — with honesty and care, so you can let go of what no longer serves you. Together we separate the real feelings at the core of your struggles from the defences and anxiety that keep you stuck, so you can face what’s been avoided and move forward. Then change becomes possible — no longer bound by old protective patterns, you’re free to meet reality as it is.

We’ll always move at a pace that feels safe and manageable. Although the work is deep, it’s carefully contained and tailored to your capacity. I help you monitor and regulate anxiety throughout each session so the process stays focused, effective and not overwhelming.

I offer genuine respect, curiosity and a strong commitment to helping you reach the root of your difficulties — working in a focused, collaborative and emotionally honest way that stays with what matters most. While the work can be challenging, it opens the way to greater freedom, deeper connection and a more grounded relationship with yourself and others.

What is ISTDP?

Much of my approach is informed by Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP) — a powerful, evidence-based method that helps you reach the emotional drivers and patterns that leave you without the closeness and depth you want in your relationships. These deeper patterns often operate outside awareness yet shape how you relate. 

ISTDP works differently from therapies that remain in analysis or reflection. It focuses on what’s happening emotionally in the moment, slowing things down so we can see the automatic habits that disrupt relationships — such as people-pleasing, suppressing feelings, withdrawing, reacting defensively, becoming guarded or mistrustful or getting caught in self-criticism. 

The work involves gradually facing the emotions and realities that have been defended against, allowing you to relate to yourself with greater honesty and acceptance.

The therapy I offer is focused, compassionate and direct. It provides a clear pathway to lasting change: loosening the grip of old protective patterns, reducing emotional reactivity and creating greater internal freedom. Over time, you become less driven by automatic reactions and more able to stay present, grounded and authentic in relationships.

How We’ll Work Together

  • At the start of therapy, we’ll establish the issues you want help with, the goals you’re hoping to reach and the emotional patterns that are getting in your way. These goals give us a shared focus — so every session is guided by what’s most important to you.

    As we work together, your goals may evolve and we’ll revisit them together. This keeps the therapy responsive and anchored in what really matters, rather than drifting into conversations that don’t lead to lasting change. 

    As we work together, your goals may evolve and we’ll revisit them together. This keeps the therapy responsive and anchored in what really matters, rather than drifting into "chit chat" that doesn’t lead to lasting change.

  • With your consent, I video record sessions so I can review and reflect deeply on our work.  This video is treated as strictly confidential and used solely for professional reflection.  This kind of deliberate practice — used by athletes, musicians and expert therapists — allows me to be best prepared for our next sessions and ensures the sessions are as effective as possible.

  • I receive regular high-level supervision from senior ISTDP trainers and specialists. This ensures my work with relational patterns, emotional defences and intimacy difficulties remains sharp and effective.

  • I’m committed to continual professional development. I’m currently completing Core Training in an advanced psychotherapy method – ISTDP, as well as an Integrative Sex and Couples Certification Course and I attend additional workshops and short trainings. This helps me stay energised and at the top of my game — so I can offer you the highest standard of care.

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